Sunday, July 21, 2013
Love one another
In today's' world, everyone judges each other. It isn't right. Every one is unique and beautiful in their own way. I consider judgement a form of bullying. I want to talk about taking a stand. Instead of judging someone because they look a little different or don't believe the same as you do, take a step back. Put yourself in their shoes. Most of the time we don't know the people we are judging. Sometimes we do know the person, but that does not mean we know EVERYTHING about them. For example, the person you called stupid because they can't read as well as others may be dyslexic. We are all beautiful in our own right. I believe if we can except ourselves and others as the people we are, we will truly be able to have healthy relationships. We all have flaws and I am not saying we are not allowed to work on them, however, we need to be willing to accept that we are all human beings. I want EVERYONE to look in the mirror and tell yourselves ONE good thing. It can be 'My eyes are really looking nice today' or 'I love how my hair looks'. Anything positive. Also, try to compliment people. It again can be something like 'Your eyes are really pretty' or 'your hair is so shiny and smooth.' Find ONE good thing about that person. You never know if that one comment might be just what they need to hear. Besides, who doesn't like a compliment?
Sunday, July 14, 2013
What really matters
While everyone is battling over whether or not the Zimmerman trial was fair, I want to bring everyone's focus back to life in general. In the news today, Glee star Corey Montieth (sp?) died. How do I know this? It was all over Facebook. I think we all need connect to celebrity deaths for one reason or another. For example, when Michael Jackson and Whitney Huston died, music lovers everywhere realized there would never be anything new from them. When Brittany Murphy died, people new a great actress who had a lot of life ahead of her was lost. Princess Diana was an example of good people dying young. We all have experienced a loved one dying in our lives and are able to feel sorry for the families and friends who lost their loved ones. I want everyone of my readers to take a moment this week to say a little prayer for someone, anyone you know that may have lost a loved one recently.
On another subject, I have noticed that a lot of people are addicted to social media. You may think, "not me. I just like connecting with people." Let me ask you this, Can you go a WEEK without social media? If you said no, then I think it is safe to say that you are addicted. When I was in school, if we wanted to talk to a friend or family member, we wrote letters, notes, called them, or just spoke face to face. I used to be addicted to social media as well. What changed? I started writing notes for friends. I sent cards, texts, made phone calls. I realized then that it is so much more delightful to do these things rather than using Facebook or Twitter. I would like to challenge ALL of you this week. Every day, I want you to write a note to your husband, wife, kids, friend, siblings, parent, or whoever you want. I know it is much easier to post it on Facebook, but it is much more personal when it is hand written and made specially for that person. Plus, that person will be so grateful. I'm not saying that we have to give up social media all together. I am simply saying it is better if we not use it for EVERYTHING.
On another subject, I have noticed that a lot of people are addicted to social media. You may think, "not me. I just like connecting with people." Let me ask you this, Can you go a WEEK without social media? If you said no, then I think it is safe to say that you are addicted. When I was in school, if we wanted to talk to a friend or family member, we wrote letters, notes, called them, or just spoke face to face. I used to be addicted to social media as well. What changed? I started writing notes for friends. I sent cards, texts, made phone calls. I realized then that it is so much more delightful to do these things rather than using Facebook or Twitter. I would like to challenge ALL of you this week. Every day, I want you to write a note to your husband, wife, kids, friend, siblings, parent, or whoever you want. I know it is much easier to post it on Facebook, but it is much more personal when it is hand written and made specially for that person. Plus, that person will be so grateful. I'm not saying that we have to give up social media all together. I am simply saying it is better if we not use it for EVERYTHING.
Sunday, July 7, 2013
July
So, today is the first Sunday of July. I don't really have much to say this week. I did want to let you all know that I am doing well and my stitches out on Wednesday. My father in law gets his out in two weeks. I wanted to share a recipe with you today. It's very simple. Peanut butter, chocolate chips, and apples. I like to heat the peanut butter in the microwave for about 10 or 15 seconds to soften it. Then mix in the chocolate chips. Cut and slice an apple. Enjoy a healthy alternative to chips and dip. If you have a recipe to share please email me at thebeezknezz@journalist.com. I want to wish you all a happy Sunday! I hope you have a great week. Please don't forget to enter the Humble Bee contest on the Humble Bee Facebook page.
Wednesday, July 3, 2013
No Hate
As you know, I had surgery last Thursday to remove the screws from my ankle. I am doing better and will be getting the stitches out next Wednesday.My Father in law also had surgery. They had to repair his Achilles tendon. He still needs prayers and kind thoughts as he still has a bit to go in his recovery.
On another note. I declare Wednesdays anti-bully day on Humble Bee. Bullying is a HUGE problem in our communities. I want to stand up to bullying. I want to help those who have been bullied. We at Humble Bee want to start the No Hate campaign. Our goal is to show those being bullied that they are not alone.
I want to start No Hate Wednesdays talking about different types of bullying. When you think of bullies, you might think of Buford from Phineas and Ferb, or Regina from Mean Girls, but the truth is, you can be bullied and not even realize it. When I was in school, I was bullied by a girl that I always considered my friend. I didn't even know I was being bullied until my senior year. I just thought she was being a good friend by telling me those harsh things. You can also be bullied by adults. Adults can be bullied by coworkers. Sometimes you are even bullied by family. The worst kind of bullying is Cyber bullying. What makes Cyber Bullying so bad is that it can be totally anonymous. With teens and adults needing to rely on the internet for so many things, we are more susceptible to bullying then ever! We are also more likely to become the bully ourselves. I have seen Facebook post demeaning 'friends'. We use the internet to rave and talk about our feelings without thinking of others. When you post something mean about someone whether true or not, it is considered bullying. Below, I have posted examples of bullying and non bullying ways to handle things.
Bullying: Are you an idiot?
Non Bullying: Thank you for your opinion, but I don't agree with you.
If we could all think about what we are going to say before we post it on the internet, we can keep from becoming the bully.
I would like to hear your bullying stories.Please email me at thebeezknezz@journalist.com. All stories will stay anonymous. I challenge every one to take a stand against bullying! Let's get the word out that bullying is not OK.
On another note. I declare Wednesdays anti-bully day on Humble Bee. Bullying is a HUGE problem in our communities. I want to stand up to bullying. I want to help those who have been bullied. We at Humble Bee want to start the No Hate campaign. Our goal is to show those being bullied that they are not alone.
I want to start No Hate Wednesdays talking about different types of bullying. When you think of bullies, you might think of Buford from Phineas and Ferb, or Regina from Mean Girls, but the truth is, you can be bullied and not even realize it. When I was in school, I was bullied by a girl that I always considered my friend. I didn't even know I was being bullied until my senior year. I just thought she was being a good friend by telling me those harsh things. You can also be bullied by adults. Adults can be bullied by coworkers. Sometimes you are even bullied by family. The worst kind of bullying is Cyber bullying. What makes Cyber Bullying so bad is that it can be totally anonymous. With teens and adults needing to rely on the internet for so many things, we are more susceptible to bullying then ever! We are also more likely to become the bully ourselves. I have seen Facebook post demeaning 'friends'. We use the internet to rave and talk about our feelings without thinking of others. When you post something mean about someone whether true or not, it is considered bullying. Below, I have posted examples of bullying and non bullying ways to handle things.
Bullying: Are you an idiot?
Non Bullying: Thank you for your opinion, but I don't agree with you.
If we could all think about what we are going to say before we post it on the internet, we can keep from becoming the bully.
I would like to hear your bullying stories.Please email me at thebeezknezz@journalist.com. All stories will stay anonymous. I challenge every one to take a stand against bullying! Let's get the word out that bullying is not OK.
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